Darkest truths of each zodiac sign: The hidden side they rarely show

Astrology can be used to point out strengths, talents and positive personality traits. But each zodiac sign has a dark side, too — a darker truth that comes out when you’re stressed, insecure or upset emotionally. These are not character traits, but knowing them can help you develop critical self-awareness, growth. Aries: Impulsiveness can destroy opportunitiesAries are known as leaders who are daring and fearless. But the biggest evil of them is their lack of thinking. They can also make quick judgements when they are angry or annoyed and they burn bridges and later regret what they have done. Sometimes the winning at all costs mentality can blind empathy and patience. Taurus: Stubbornness becomes self-sabotageTaurus is all about stability and loyalty, but they can have a major weakness when it comes to their stubbornness to change. They dig their heels in and may not take advice, resist needed growth and stay in unhealthy situations, just because change is uncomfortable. Gemini: Inconsistency creates trust issuesGeminis are smart and flexible, but because of their dual nature, they can sometimes be pretty unpredictable. Their toughest truth is that they might have a hard time committing to an idea, a goal or a relationship. Others can challenge consistency in the face of this inconsistency. Cancer: Emotional manipulation can surfaceCancer is very loving and sensitive. They feel a lot of things When they get hurt they might go to guilt, or passive aggressive behavior or withdrawal instead of clear communication. They can use their shell as a weapon when they are vulnerable. Leo: The need for validation can take overLeos are born to shine and they crave validation. They show their dark side when the desire for recognition becomes too strong. They can be too competitive, attention seeking or not able to take criticism (even constructive criticism). Virgo: Perfectionism breeds dissatisfactionVirgos are perfectionists and their need to be the best can tire you out. The worst thing is they can be too self-critical and critical of others and that can make it hard to see the progress they are making and enjoy the moment. Libra: Avoiding conflict creates bigger problemsLibras have a love for harmony and balance and will go to great lengths to avoid confrontation. This results in indecision, people pleasing and pent up resentment. In trying to please everybody they may be honest with nobody, not even with themselves. Scorpio: Revenge is hard to forgetScorpio is passionate, loyal and very emotional. But they never forget, Of betrayal. Their biggest secret? They can nurse a grudge for years. They value trust as sacred, and when broken, forgiveness doesn’t come easily. Sagittarius: Brutal honesty can hurt othersSagittarius loves truth and freedom but a Sagittarius truth can be borderline insensitive. They say things without thinking through how their words might affect others, and can unintentionally offend colleagues by thinking they are just being honest. Capricorn: Success can become an obsessionCapricorns are very disciplined and ambitious people but they tend to put achievement above relationships, feelings and their own health. The worst thing about these people is that they sometimes measure their worth by what they achieve, not how happy they are. Aquarius: Emotional detachment and distance Aquarius is the sign of vision and independence. but can be so involved with logic and ideals that they become disconnected from emotional realities. Family and loved ones may feel misunderstood by the detached or indifferent attitude. Pisces: Escaping reality is a habit Pisces are creative and dreamers. They tend to see the best in people, and in situations. They show their dark side when they dodge hard truths, responsibilities or confrontations. They could live in fantasy or denial instead of facing the problems. The final wordThere is a light and a dark to every sign. These dark qualities are no prophecies and predestined fate, but tendencies which can claim us when passions are aroused. Astrology is not about condemnation, but about self-knowledge. If we know our weaknesses, we can build them into strengths and become better people.